Some quotes from one of the greats, UCLA’s Coach John Gooden:
“You must have respect, which is a part of love, for those under your supervision. Then they will do what you ask and more.”
“Motivating through fear may work in the short term to get people to do something, but over the long run I believe personal pride is a much greater motivator. It produces far better results that last for a much longer time.”
And finally, retired US Army General Eric Shinseki:
''You must love those you lead before you can be an effective leader...You can certainly command without that sense of commitment, but you cannot lead without it. And without leadership, command is a hollow experience, a vacuum often filled with mistrust and arrogance.''